A new report claims that Hailey Glassman's public tears and claims of emotional abuse from Jon Gosselin were actually orchestrated by the reality dad himself. A supposed insider told Fox411, "Jon actually made the decision to have Hailey go on air and bad mouth him. Jon and Hailey get paid for their appearances on these shows and they need the money. It was easy for Hailey to conjure tears, their lives are less than stellar right now, but Jon hasn't abused her."

The source added, "They agreed to have her go on and make the abuse allegations! Jon doesn't have much money left and he is not currently searching for a real job. Jon still seeks money through his fame and notoriety. He really wants a reality show of his own, and he is stretching out every moment of the drama for a dollar."

KATE BETRAYED BY CONFIDANTS

In other Gosselin news, Kate said during last night's TLC special that it's hard to trust people now that her life has become tabloid fodder. The reality mom told Natalie Morales, "When you look around, and very close trusted people who would never cash you in, for lack of better words, and those people do that and people leave your house and tell completely different stories, you tend not to trust people."

She explained that eight Gosselin children have been showing signs of strain, acting out and, in some cases, becoming more introverted in the wake of the family's public troubles.

HAILEY GLASSMAN NOT READY TO DATE

Meanwhile, although Glassman and Gosselin both admit their relationship is on the back burner for now, Hailey isn't looking for a new man. She tweeted on Monday (November 2nd), "Yes, I am semi-single, but definitely NOT YET ready to mingle. I need some Hailey time and regroup myself and my life."